One of my college roommates and favorite people is expecting her first baby in a few weeks. Having just emerged from year one of parenthood myself, I wanted to try to capture what I learned, which I hope will help her and not cause her to run (or waddle) screaming. Please add your own words [...]
Monthly Archives: January 2012
20 Things I Wish I’d Known about the First Year (Won’t You Add Some More?)
P is for Package, it’s Good Enough for Me
When the Fed Ex guy noticed Viv’s new tooth, it occurred to me that I might have a problem with online shopping. It started innocently enough, when I was pregnant and on bed rest. Immobilized, the only way I could finish outfitting the nursery was to let my fingers do the browsing. When the baby came, I [...]
Mini Wedding Planner
When my brother and sister-in-law were planning their New York wedding, they spent marathon weekends scouting potential venues, 10 at a time. Armed with a multi-page checklist, they left no gazebo unturned. They locked down a site, DJ and photographer before news of their engagement had time to reach the cousins. And that manic intensity [...]
A Husband By Any Other Name
The Carriage Before Marriage poster couple has got to be Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie: Brangelina don’t sweat being unmarried with 6 kids because as Angie told Vanity Fair, “Children are clearly a commitment…it’s for life.” True that. I love that they’ve gone on record saying they’re not getting married until all gay people can, [...]


writer currently at home with my little girl, Viv. The twist is that while I am raising my daughter, I am also planning my wedding to her father.















